Preparing a Toddler - Age: 12 months to 3 years

Fears: separation, abandonment and immobility.

• Prepare your toddler for the hospitalization/surgery 1-2 days before the event, if possible.
  
  
• Allow your child to bring his favorite stuffed animal, blanket or security item.
  
  
• Involve yourself as much as possible in the care of your child and reassure your child 
  that you will be with him as much as possible.
  
  
• Allow for independence and autonomy when possible. Give your child choices -  
  "Do you want to hold still by yourself or do you want help?"
  
  
• Keep a positive attitude.
  
  
• Give simple explanations ("You need to have surgery so the doctor can fix your leg.")
  
  
• Reinforce positive behaviors.
  
  
• Explain procedures/surgery in relation to your child's senses.
  
  
• Play with doctor kits prior to admission to explore your child's feelings.
  
  
• Read books (Book Resources for Parents) about Cardinal Glennon prior to admission.
  

For more helpful information, click on the following links:

    Distractions

    What Happens When You Go For Your Test

    Play

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